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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend often asks me to tell him naughty stories when we're having sex. Is the fact we're having sex not good enough for him? I don't require him to speak. Plus I find it really hard. I just want to enjoy it not have to speak and think. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): if it puts you off then tell him be honest, it sounds like a fantasy of his to be talked dirty too, we all have fantasys, see i like a bit of dirty talk and my man loves it gets him more excited we dont do it all the time just a odd time, its just a little fantasy in the bedroom, we all have it, but if its not for you tell him so.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 Then you have to tell him what works for you, and more particularly what *doesn't* work for you. He may have ideas from a previous partner, or from watching porn. You have to make it clear to him that this isn't on, it doesn't do anything for you, and in fact takes away from the experience. If he doesn't get it, well ...
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