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He wants me to give him oral often. So how do I do it well?

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Question - (1 April 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 April 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

This one's a pretty blunt simple question: I'm in a new relationship with a guy who is OBSESSED with oral sex, but I'm kinda new to this and haven't ever really given anyone head before! - please please PLEASE, as many tips as you can think of for how to do it right, and do it well!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2006):

Since he's OBSESSED with oral, tell him, "Show me how you want it done." And if he can't or won't, then perhaps he should tone down his demands. Also, why wasn't this solution obvious to either you or your new guy?

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (2 April 2006):

tux agony auntLike it has been said.. just act like it's a lolipop.. as long as you are not one that tends to bite lolipops to crack them. If he's anything like me, he'd find pleasure no matter which way you do it.. though I would say that lick the head of the penis can do wonders as well.. I tend to believe that change if good with this as well.. but who knows, you guy may be different. Just sit back and relax and remember that sex isn't a one way street. He should please you as well.. personally I tend to actually like giving better and get more affectionate to my gf after I please her. but well be sure to protect yourself.

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A reader, robinlovescena +, writes (2 April 2006):

robinlovescena agony auntOk, first, please do us all a favor and ask him if he has any STDs. Second, if you really want to do this, just relax, and he shouldnt judge you for how good or bad you are at it. Relax and just let it be. Practice on pop- sicle sticks if you have to. I would describe it as intense making out- except that you doing that to a penis. so just relax and give it a try.

good luck

robin salyers

aka advice gurl

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A female reader, xXxBabymamaXxX +, writes (2 April 2006):

xXxBabymamaXxX agony auntHeya, just a few reminders before you put what a man pisses out of in your mouth, you can get aids from oral sex, and you don't have to do it if you want to, he'll understand, just say you find it disgusting... First off all lads like it different ways, this isn't the best advice but you could get drunk maybe one night with him and ask " Hey how'd you like gettin head" Lads av no problemw telling you, some might even guide you through it, whatever you do don't bite, pretend its a lollypop!! Good luck laura, 16

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2006):

there are many different ways of giving oral sex to a guy. the trick is to find one he likes.

firstly before you do this be completely sure want to, dont do it if your feeling pressured.

secondly before you do it this, if you do this decide if you want to spit or swallow. tell you boyfriend before which you going to do.

thirdly before you perform oral sex you should practise on a banana or an ice lolly.

try slowly sucking, working your mouth up and down it. try slowly working on you speed, becoming slowly faster and faster at this time dont be afraid to use a little teeth. dont bit too hard make it softer, let your teeth slowly graze aacross it.

once you know how to begin the rest will come naturally.

you can also enclue licking the tip of his penis in it as well.

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