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He wants me to be like a porn actress and willingly give BJ's..whenever he wants sex!

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Question - (15 September 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

My boyfriend would love it if I gave hime blow jobs everytime we have sex. I hate giving them as I have tried to explain to him I hate the taste I get in my mouth and refuse to let him come in my mouth (he would love it if I did). We both like watching porn and can get turned on by it but I think he would love it I was like one of the girls in the porn film and could give one just like they do. What do I do to get over this?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007):

Now come on! As a MAN and being with a woman who doesnt like to give a BJ thats sad.If he is clean to start he shouldn't taste any different than your finger.When he is ready to come at worst you could take it out of your mouth and jerk him off in your face. I find that to be a turn on but if you really love him there should be special time where you let him come in your mouth. DEEP yes push it deep into your throat and you won't taste it when he comes force yourself to swollow and again if you gag or throw up thats could be a turn on too.At least he knows you tried.The important part is you tried.I left a girl I got pregnent because she wouldn't suck me.Yes I really loved her but couldn't go through life like that. Yes I still talk to her yes I paid support and she understands me. Yes I talk to my daughter and do things with her.The woman I with now didn't ever suck a bone. i talked to her about it and when she tried it she said it wasn't so bad.First time I came in her mouth she made a bunch of funny faces swollowed and said that fuckin nasty tasting but she continues till this day to swollow

(Mod note; this was a hard one to approve as the writer is such an objectionable person, but he is not flinging any insults so he has a right like everyone else to his opinion, so take this advice with a pinch of salt)

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A female reader, confussed jane +, writes (15 September 2006):

hun you cant be something you ant.you also shouldnt do something you dont want to and ant happy with. and if you dont like something and ur bf loves you he should expect you to or preaser you into doing it.

can exsperament alittle like been said depends what he eats then taste is diffrent.you should talk to him.

good luck xxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006):

If he truly cared about you, he wouldn't expect you to do something that you're not comfortable doing. I understand that you might want to please him but there are other ways. You both should feel comfortable when pleasing each other. Don't let anyone make you do what you don't want to.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006):

Well I know the taste is not very pleasent. But I did an expiriment and it came out ok. You know that depending on what a man eats is what he's going to tast like. I had an ex-boyfriend eat pineapple one hour before I gave him a BJ.And the results were sweet!!! So give hime some sweet fruit and you will have a better taste. Good luck! If that doesn't work than just spit it out and have something sweet around to put in your mouth after.

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