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writes:Hello, i know this probably sounds stupid but id really appreciate your advise.I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now (his my first) and we love each other very much, every time we sleep together he is normally on top but recently he is hinting that he'd like me to take control and be on top of him. Fair enough, i want to please him and we can talk openly about sex, BUT i am not very experienced and haven't got a clue what to do, we tried not long ago but he kept slipping out and i felt as though i had disappointed him. When we tried i just kind of froze and didnt know what i was doing. I'm sure he doesnt mind whatever way we do it but i would still like to get some advice and tips.Thanks for reading. X Reply to this Question
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reader, daletom  +, writes (16 January 2008):
Just experiment to find what feels best. You might prefer to squat over him, or maybe laying out full-length on top of him feels better. If you lay out full length, try putting your legs together with his legs outside of yours. You can use your thighs to position his erection in "just the right place".
Many women find it easier to orgasm when they are on top because they can move to get exactly the stimulation they need. Plus, his hands are free to to caress or finger whatever sensitive place needs the most attention. I think it's awesome to hold my partner's hips and feel the contractions go through her when she climaxes, and watching her make those delightful un-ladylike hip motions is a real turn-on.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 Practice makes perfect. Just sit there and slowly gyrate .It's like riding a horse.Go slow and not too fast.
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reader, IntoxicatingLastBreath +, writes (16 January 2008):
 Aww
I understand fully what you mean it's the same with me and my boyfriend
And i feel really mean letting him do the work all the time and he always says about him having to do all the work which frustrates me lol
If i was you i'd just ease yourself ontop of him and go slowly at first..make sure he has a firm grip on your hips and let him bounce you up and down if you feel you can't get the hang of it at first..try moving your hips in different directions as it adds a hint of sexiness and also gives you time to calm down and get ontop of things..it's not abnormal or anything for him to slip out when your ontop..just maybe try and not go up and down as much maybe? To keep him in and stuff
Everything takes practise anyway, and i'm sure you'll get the hang of it after practise..and if you tell him you want to practise i'm sure he won't mind :]
Feel free to contact me
I hope i've helped in some way
-Krissy3
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