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writes: I met this guy January and we began a relationship right away. I was moving to another country shortly after we met and told him so, but he insited we still date to "see what happened". I am not a person who gets attached, probably cause I've moved every 2 years since I was 10. After dating him for 2 months, him and I were inseparable and I stayed an extra month simply cause I didn't want to leave him. We fell in love and I left. He asked for a long distance relationship and we tried it. Tehn he broke it off (he said he couldn't stand how sad and upset I always was). Months later he emailed me and we started on the love path again, and I scheduled to visit him in 2 weeks. He just dumped me again.What can I do? I love him more than anything, and will do anything to get him back.
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reader, Love Rockx my Sockx +, writes (14 October 2006):
Aww well thats the scariest thing about love - it will survive under any circumstances but only if u allow it to. i applaud u for keeping ure ground and moving away instead of surrendering to him and giving up on ure plans.
U have to be honest with him and talk to him; even meet up in person if its possible and tell him how u feel. Maybe he is confused which is why he has broken up with u as he's afraid of getting hurt and this is why he is "messed up." The long distance thing is a massive factor but if it is TRUE love - then it will work. If its meant to be, then its meant to be.
Xx Good Luck xX :):) !!
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reader, marieclaire  +, writes (14 October 2006):
 you need to see him and talk to him about what you want and what is viable. maybe its too hard on him. if he loves you maybe he should move with you. if you really love him maybe you should find a way to stay in one place.
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