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writes: I have liked this guy for years but there were circumstances that kept me from admitting this. He attempted to get closer to me. He even went as far as saying he liked the sound of my 1st name and his last name together. I rejected him but tried to stay friends. He said he had other objectives so I said ok.He tried once more and I told him to go after his other objectives... It's been a year since I have seen him and he now has a girlfriend. Now, I want to pursue a relationship with him. But, can't. What should I do?
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
 I'm sorry but you really did have your chance twice in fact to have this guy and both times you turned him down therefore coming across that you wasn't interested leaving him only to get over you and move on which he has now done.
All you can do is tell him what you feel but be sure before you do so that you do actually want him and it's not just because he has moved on that you are feeling this way, he may not be interested in you anymore so you have to be prepared that he may tell you that you missed your chance with him, but better you know so you can start moving on rather than waiting for someone that maybe happy and in love in his new relationship.
Good luck :o)
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reader, camille  +, writes (28 September 2006):
 I'm sorry but there's not much you can do. He gave you a shot (twice) as he made it clear he liked you. He can't be expected to wait around just in case you change your mind. Now you have, he's with someone else. Do you really want to be with him or is it the thought of him with someone else? Do you want to tell him? Do you want him to finish his relationship to be with you? If you truly think that he would want to know and want the same, go ahead and tell him. Don't expect him to still feel the same, he may be in love with this girl. I myself wouldn't tell him and see what happens, but whatever you do, don't get involved with him unless he chooses you and becomes 'single' again.
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