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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So my and this guy have been on and off for about three years. Just recently we started hanging out again. He has recently been calling me and inviting me to these parties and when I get there, he has hickies on his neck and ignores me. I know I shouldn’t be talking to him and my friends are starting to not talk to me because of how poorly he treats me but I can’t bring myself to stop talking to him. For some reason I like hanging out with him and his friends but I can’t just be friends with him. I think about him all the time and am totally unhappy. What should I do? And how can I finally get the strength to move on?
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (2 June 2009):
 So a guy treats you like wet poo on a wetter hill and you continue to hang out with him...actually....heck why not just join his friends!!!
He invites you places, ignores you and advertises that he is making out/shagging other girls...how does that make you feel? I take it you like feeling like how you feel now cause you keep returning to get more of these wonderful feelings.
What you need to do is value yourself some more and let Mr. Wanna be Hugh Hefner fend for himself. Really....you are losing your friends and you are embarrassing yourself in front of his friends.
Stop talking to him ....easy....dont' call, don't text, he calls tell him to call someone else...you are a person not a door mat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): I think it's time for you to put a foot down and end this because it's only gonna get worse. He sees he can get away with it and he'll keep doing it. You should find someone who can appreciate you because this guy isnt cutting it. have some respect for yourself and never sell yourself short!!
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reader, Rihannax  +, writes (2 June 2009):
 Accept the fact that your not together, hang with him and his friends but only as friends, or find someone new and get person to hang with all of you lot then he will no to, itl make things better
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