A
female
age
26-29,
*ishingheknew
writes:hi okay so this guy is rly confusing me hes one of the most popular guys in school and im not im not like a nerd but just like in between okay well he flirts with me all the time (my whole math class notices) and he's my "therapist" he sorta like told me to come to him and stuff with my friend problems he can be really sweet to me and my one friend thinks he really likes me but around his friends he sorta ignores me and stuff and i dont know wat to think like if he'll always be this sweet and stuff he listens better then my best friend sorry sorta confusing but realy the main question is what should i think of this guy
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reader, Tasmanian devil  +, writes (4 April 2010):
 Im guessing because of the whole american school system, in front of important people, the ones that count (i.e his friends) he'll ignore you and act like you don't exist because his peers won't agree with his choice in friends or perhaps more, so nothing will probably come of this no matter what he feels, coz he seems more concerned about what his friends think. Is this some one you'd wanna get involved with??
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reader, pipsta  +, writes (4 April 2010):
Hi there.
The thing with guys within your age group, are very easily swayed by his friends. if you are in a different 'social level' than his friends, he may feel like he will lose his status and popularity at school.
He obviously does like you, but is scared of what people may think if he dates you.
This is a very common thing in teen males, and is very confusing for the opposite sex.
I can't offer you advice on what to do as it is hard to judge the exact situation, but I can give you insight to the young teen male way of thinking.
Good luck!
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reader, bucket1 +, writes (4 April 2010):
people like that tend to always stay like that. my boyfriend for example, was one of the 'cool kids' and he tends to act a lot different around his mates.. they grow up, but they are lads.. & you'l have heard it before & you'll hear it al ot, they are all the same!
just see how it goes, maybe confront him about it, & show that your not a weak person & proove his mates wrong.
just don't turn into what they want you to be
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