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writes:Hi.Recently i feel so sad and empty all the time. My boyfriend doesnt treat me right. He treat me more like his close guy friend rather than his girlfriend. He likes to compare me with his crush. Saying shes better than me and i suck. The reason hes not so sweet to me was i suck that is wad he say. I tried asking him what he wants me to do and in what way he wnts me to treat him. He say he dont know n he gt angry when i repeatedly ask. i really love him. weve been dating for 1 year 6 months. idk wad to do anymore. and he always get easyly angry at me. what should i do :'( i do feel so upset n empty..
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): It sounds to me he has lost interest in you, you should ask him.You dont have to put up with those put downs either if you suck so bad why is he still with you so you know thats a lie he is really emotionally abusing you he knows that talking about his crush or whoever she is gets under your skin and bothers you thats why he says all the time to you i know you love him but is he really worth tearing you down on the inside? If you decide to stay it only gets worse im telling you from experience.I cant say alot on this because i dont know if you guys were going through somethings before he started this but keep your head high and dont let him know it bothers you when he says that be strong laugh even though it hurts i bet that will shut his nasty mouth up keep me posted
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): First off, he shouldn't have a crush on someone else if you are already his girlfriend! and furthermore, he should not be comparing you to her. He is being disrespectful to you and you are allowing it.
He seems very immature by the only response he's giving you is, "you suck"
Try talking to him once more and let him know you are serious...If he doesn't change and treat you better, well, you are young and there are plenty of fish in the sea...find someone who knows how to treat you well :)
good luck!
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