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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2006): I am in the same boat as you. But on the other end. I do believe my wife isn't interested in sex anymore. I ask her to show that she is interested but I am not sure she knows how to anymore. She was VERY promiscuous before we met, and now she blames it on our 2 kids. They DO have something to do with it but not as much as she says. Just show him you are interested, take him by surprise maybe once a week. That is all I ask for (and never get). Would make a BIG difference.
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reader, breeze +, writes (20 January 2006):
my husband is the same. i just need time to myself, thats all. alot of men think that sex is the be all and end all of a relationship but most women would disagree. i feel like i have to perform every night and im fed up with it so ive put a stop to it. end of !
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reader, kt  +, writes (20 January 2006):
 the best way to let him know is to simply tell him.
tell him that you want to move your relationship on to the next level.
but just remeber that their maybe a reason for him denying your intreset he might be scared him self.
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reader, Stacey_Helps +, writes (20 January 2006):
You can change this if you want to. Im going to assume that you want to and that you want him to think that you are interested. Have you tried talking to him about it? Or on the other hand if you are asking us then maybe your too shy to speak about it. Why dont you show him? Do what makes you feel comfortable and take things to a comfortable level. Actions speak louder than words.
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reader, Morag +, writes (20 January 2006):
Why not make the first move on him then?! im sure that will imply your interested
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