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26-29,
*razystraw44
writes:I have been dating this guy for what will be 3 months March 6th. He is AMAZING. He loves me to death and I love him just as much, if not more. And I want to be with him forever. Now, I know I'm still in highschool, so I'm being realistic and I know how we may not even make it out of highschool, but at the same time, I just feel like we...click in a way we couldn't with other people.Anyways, like I said before, I want to spend forever with him. And he wants to spend forever with me too. But he wants to see me every weekend but my Mom has to drive him back and forth (we live in separate towns) and although I want to see him a lot too, I don't want to bug my Mom. Plus, I have friends who I'd like to hang out with (separately, to avoid drama, although they do get along). I feel like he's too clingy at times, yet I feel like a hypocrite saying that, because I too am a hypocrite. Is this normal?But my biggest problem is that he is often mentioning marrying me. Now, almost every girl wants a storybook ending. But for some reason this absolutely terrifies me. Spending the rest of life with him? Sure, bring it on! Marriage? I may be the one leaving HIM at the altar. I mean, I'm only 15. Is there something wrong here? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): It is too soon and it's okay to slow down. Maybe you can both agree that if things go well after school say when you are 19 you can have a look at things then.It is actually very nice and romantic to have a sweetheart at your age that could end up being the nice 'ever after' love. It would be a shame to throw that away.But you might not be sure if it is right until you get a bit older so just try and stay grounded about it and be good to each other for now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): If I could go back to highschool (I'm in college now) and change one thng about the way I dated I would take it waaaaaay less seriously! You're getting too serious for a highschooler
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