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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of 2 years is in the in the army and when he was still in town we were inseparable and we couldn't get enough of each other. He's currently living in Korea for 3 months now, and for a month and a half we communicated almost daily and he didn't mind what's the cost, then after 2 months I received an email and he's talking to me in the past tense. What does he mean by that? He told me that he loved me and the time spent with me he has no regret and I was the world he wanted to in, I did asked him what did his letter meant, but he never answer me back and never heard from him again, no explanation whatsoever. So I guess relationship with the army guys is not all legit specially when they outside their comfort zone. I thought this would only happen to younger couples but it happen to the best of me. It hurt but I'm sure I get over it somehow. Sassy Lady Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2014): Well, if he said "loved" in the past tense, I would be a little concerned, but overall, I wouldn't read too much into it. It sounds like he is depressed. Using the past tense might just express the hopelessness he is experiencing overseas.
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