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writes:My name is Melissa and my heart is broken thats what led me here to your site and i hope i can get an answer or just something explaining to me whats going on here,ok i met a man january 4th his daughter introduced us because he told her he wanted to meet a good woman and she said i got the perfect woman for you to meet, well we got together and and was together every weekend he called me 3 or 4 times a day from his work and we talked alot getting to know each other more and more day by day well the phone calls got shorter and shorter from him and now nothing, he tells his daughter being i got 2 kids at home i think she is looking for a husband i like her and all but im not ready, well Andrew thats not what im looking for i just want a relationship to start with and then whatever happens later than so be it. and he wont return any of my calls for me to try and tell him what i have to say i really like this man we was getting so close to each other and now nothing, what do you have to say about getting cold feet? will he come back? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2007): Hi Melissa, you sounds like such a lovely lady, don't worry about this guy, he's not worth it! You'll meet someone much nicer than him next time. I know it's hard when you like someone and they cool off for some reason, but please remember that it isn't you, its them! And their loss! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): The guy is just not that interested in dating you...your kids may have put him off and if that is the case, there is not future with him anyway. This is not about you, you are wonderful, even his daughter thinks you are perfect him, and if he doesn't see it, then there is something in him that won't let him step up to the plate.
He is not strong enough to be your man.....don't call him, don't run after him, don't sell him or talk to him about what you wanted....trust me, he already knows that. It is human nature to want what we cannot have...
Just get on with your life, and try to date others, and stay active in your community, do things you enjoy doing and stay happy, don't shed too many tears....dating is dating, it sucks until you find the right guy...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): forget about the bastard (I know its very harsh and I'm sorry but it's true) a guy like that just isnt worth the pain if he doesnt have the guts to just tell you straight out then yeah forget about him you can find alot better you know?
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