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writes:I am wondering, my bf used to be very jealous, and all of a sudden he isnt. Is this normal? initially, even going to see male friends was a problem.today i told him i was going to the club and would spend the night with my friends ata guys house and he said he was okay with it! After a while i asked him why the change in habit and he went like : 'If you want to go , then go'. i was shocked. does this mean he doesnt care anymore?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): Either he has decided that you deserve his trust, or he has decided that there is nothing that he can do to stop you from cheating if you want to. Maybe next time, tell him that if he's okay with something that's great, but if he is bothered by it, you can change your plans a bit to compromise. See then what he says, and pay close attention to his facial expressions. Irritation at being given a choice or surprise that you thought enough of him to suggest a compromise. Better yet happiness that you finally understand that your actions have bothered him.
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