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writes:i am a female and whenever i am talking to this (married) man i know, he is looking at me like sun is shining in his eyes. and if he should respond to what i am saying, he looks downwards and nodding. sometimes, he just says 'right, right, right" or barely anything at all. but squints his eyes most of the time like sun is shining on his face. other times if it is him that is coming up to me to say something, his eyes is very wide and grin widely. what's this kind of body language? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 February 2011):
 Squinting of the eyes if a sign of needing glasses. This married man sounds rather socially awkward and may be slightly intimidated by you. If this isn't about a crush then why are you so curious about this man's body language?
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reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (25 February 2011):
 I am just one man but I think this "(married) man" is sexually attracted to you and is socially awkward. I think while being polite to him you make it clear you know he is married and you respect his wife whether you know her or not. I wish you all the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): We can all be a little unusual at times. You can ask yourself why it is so important to you that you try to figure this out (as it really isnt much of anything in the grand scheme of life) but I think you know the truth of why you want feedback on it. Lots of people act weird. Im sure that you have most likely encountered people in your lifetime that have strange mannerisms. Did you really put so much effort into trying to decode what their particular mannerisms meant or did you make note that they were weird and then not give it a second thought?
Exactly.
Usually if they dont mean much to you, you dont give it a second thought and it is typically forgotton rather quickly. The fact that you are going into detail on his mannerisms and facial expressions says to me that you might be (or have already) developed some attraction for him and are curious if he feels the same way about you.
I could be way off base, but as I said before if it didnt mean that much to you then you would dismiss it as strange and not give it a second thought. Unless it does mean that much to you. And it shouldnt. Because he is married. And its not fair. And not nice either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ eyeswideopen: this not about having a crush. its just that he acts weird around me then my friends. And his reactions and responses seems unusual.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 February 2011):
 What do you want his body language to mean? Are you crushing on the guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): Hmmm .. to me it seems like .. hes trying to figure you out or something .. it seems like he likes you .. maybe hes trying to flirt with his eyes .. or else hes not liking something about you .. Ask him whats up the next time you see it happen ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): It seems as if you are reading entirely too much into a married mans body language. What would you like your advice to be? That he looks at you in this way because he is madly in love with you and so blinded by your beauty that he cant help but to squint? If this were the case, what then? Would you then post on here in a month or so telling us all how you fell in love with a married man and you are so torn?
In my opinion, questions like these often are anything but innocent. They are often asked with full intent to progress the situation into something deeper.
By the way, barring that the sun is in his eyes, or he has a vision disorder or that something is stuck in his eyes, or he is harboring some romantic attraction for you, squinting and looking downward can also indicate someone who is dishonest, ie they avoid eye contact. Also, perhaps he is catching a vibe that you are wanting something from him and perhaps this makes him uncomfortable as he is happily commited to his wife, and would prefer not to do anything at all that could be misconstrued at leading you on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): hey,
Narrowing of a person's eyes can indicate evaluation, perhaps considering that something told to them is not true (or at least not fully so).
It can similarly indicate uncertainty ('I cannot quite see what is meant here.')
Squinting can also be used by liars who do not want the other person to detect their deception.
When a person thinks about something and does not want to look at the internal image, they may involuntarily squint.
Squinting can also happen when lights or the sun are bright.
Lowering of eyelids is not really a squint but can have a similar meaning. It can also indicate tiredness.
Lowering eyelids whilst still looking at the other person can be a part of a romantic and suggestive cluster, and may be accompanied with tossing back the head and slightly puckering the lips in a kiss.
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