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writes:Help - I can't forget about something!! Me and my current boyfriend, Lee* were seeing each other before I left my ex, Paul*. I was mad about Lee from when we first met and it took us a long time to get together but in the end we did and now we're very happy together. However, I found out last week that he'd slept with someone when we were 'seeing each other' (which he now denies we were). He says I was still with Paul so that's OK. I disagree and I want to know it people think I'm crazy. I cared about him so much then and would never have dreamt of flirting with anyone else, never mind sleeping with them. I barely saw Paul all the time we were 'seeing each other'. I guess I just thought he felt the same. Obviously not.Anyway, it's really upset me, as lots of our relationship, for me, is built on that time we snook around and really got close when we first met. He thinks I'm blowing it out of proportion and need to forget about it but I don't think I can. What does everyone think?
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reader, beenthere +, writes (19 December 2005):
it was still cheating if you were seeing each other but, saying that, you were cheating too. i'm not saying he was right to do it but you should not be hypocritical about it
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reader, watrbot +, writes (19 December 2005):
I think you are blowing it out of proportion- you were still sleeping with Paul- you were with someone else, why can't he. You cheated on your boyfriend and you have a problem with a single sleeping with someone. I don't get it.
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