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female
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41-50,
*a girl
writes:A man I have been seeing, has told me that he cant give me more than what im getting now, he said he is a selfish man and still wants to do things, he also brought up ex girlfriends saying they broke his heart and so on. What should I think about all this. In all honestly I feel as though he is just using me for a good time.
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (16 August 2011):
 There may be feelings on his part, but if a man is REALLY in deep love, he will move mountains to be with you.
He will do whatever it takes to be with you.
This guy can not, and will not do that.
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reader, sa girl +, writes (16 August 2011):
sa girl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi, thanks for all the your replies, he does love me, as he has told me that, I just recon its too early in the realtionship, to request more, as right in the begining he did however say, we don't know what will happen in 6 months, as the both of us were just looking for a good time, but things have progressed into something else now, and I think i'm just too greedy, wanting more at this time. I just cant get over him bringing up his ex, as i am my own person and hate being judge for other peoples stuff ups.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): i agree with the first reply. Men tell us all the time what they are and who they are. We don't want to listen as they are not saying the words we want to hear. So we invent excuses for them. His exgirlfriend hurt him, his mother is a maniac, he is so busy with work etc etc... This man is at least being honest about how it is for him, either accept that is all you are going to get or move on by yourself. Moving on is the hard option but ultimately if you can't live with what you are getting it is the only one. Good luck x
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (15 August 2011):
He told you what he was. Believe him. Expect nothing more.
If you want more-you will not find it with him.
Simple as that.
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reader, aasha  +, writes (15 August 2011):
 Well you could hang around with another guy.To make him jealous
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