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writes: I was seeing a guy for a few months and he said he would like to go out on a date again and he is the one which brought it up. He has not arranged anything though and it has been weeks since he said this! I have seen him and he is not ignoring me as he comes over and talks to me etc. He says he has been busy working on a company he is setting up.He is friends with my group of friends so I don't want there to be any awkwardness. I would like to know if he is interested still but don't want to nag about it. I don't love him but like him so it is just annoying me a bit. Even more annoying as he hangs out with us! I am 26 he is 24. What to do?? Thanks for any help. xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): So you have had one date with him so far? If he said he wants to go out with you again, but has not followed up on making any arrangements and its been weeks since he said that, then either his interest level is not very high, OR he really is extremely busy trying to get his business set up. That can be complicated and very time-consuming.
You have two choices, basically: continue to be friendly when he talks to you and hangs out with your group of friends, and see what happens; or take a chance and invite him to have lunch with you sometime - suggest a couple of days and see what he says.
However, I wouldn't place too much hope in starting to go out with him on a regular basis.....he may well like you, but timing for him (he's involved with his work) may not be right........and as you know, in meeting someone, timing is important.
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reader, Big boy +, writes (20 March 2007):
 All I can say is, dress you ass and look nice...then see if he takes any notice he most like you to arrange to go out with you... relax your self... look good all the time and talk to him as if your where just friends that never had any interest in each other...
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