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Online he really does seem like my dream man but I’m not sure if I should accept his invitation to meet

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Question - (13 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

There’s this man I really like and I haven't even met him yet!!

We talk to each other through email and he seems so witty and it's like his personality shines through his writing.

We first began contact in December because he sent an email to me by mistake meaning it to go to someone else (my email address has one of those common surnames before @ and I find that I get emails from people I've never even met before!) and It was very funny so I contacted him and he kindly responded back in that wonderful writing style of his and it carried on from there.

He and I have sent each other images of ourselves and his picture is very bleary and hasn't really come out well so I can't really tell what he looks like, I asked him if he had a clear one but he says that he hasn’t figured out how to use the scanner yet. He lives in the states and he seems really serious that he wants to meet me in the states (where he lives)

but I'm not so sure because I'm unsure of his appearance ... for all I know he could have rather unpleasant features and I don't think I could be that cruel and go over there and then see him and the instantly take the next flight back to the UK.

Appearance matters ... and don't even mention inner beauty!

He really does seem like my dream man but I’m not sure if I should accept his invitation.

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A female reader, xXBeccaTxX United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2008):

xXBeccaTxX agony auntIt's fine to meet him(even though some people will say it's not!)

But i would go with friends, That way if he is a dodgy person at all and tries anything with you you have friends by your side.

Your not techniqly bf & gf so if you don't like the way he looks it does'nt matter because you can still be friends....

BUT,DON'T GO ON YOUR OWN.YOUR PUTTING YOURSELF AT RISK...

hope i helped!

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A female reader, xXBeccaTxX United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2008):

xXBeccaTxX agony auntIt's fine to meet him(even though some people will say it's not!)

But i would go with friends, That way if he is a dodgy person at all and tries anything with you you have friends by your side.

Your not techniqly bf & gf so if you don't like the way he looks it does'nt matter because you can still be friends....

BUT,DON'T GO ON YOUR OWN.YOUR PUTTING YOURSELF AT RISK...

hope i helped!

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