A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello,I met this man on a dating website we were only friends for 2 months then he decided to pay for membership to contact me he even told me that he just paid to contact me so he sent me his email address so that he can contact me and send me pictures and emails telling me about himself but what was strange was that i already knew his age 43 but on his profile he changed it to be 10 years younger and he added new pictures on his profile and also send me some.If he was only interested in contacting me then why ugrade his profile!So he told me that iam a beautiful woman and that he hopes that he will direct me to love. He asked about my family and even asked me if my family would allow him to date me due to our different nationalities he even wanted me to reassure him that we can be together beacause he doesnt want to fall in love with me and suffer a broken heart. So i talked to my family and they agreed.So one time we went out for teahe told me your nicer in person just as we shook handsso then he told me he closed his profile because he found what he wanted ,and it was true because i checked . He told me that he has not married until now beacause he was broke at one time and also wanted to travel the world. So i asked him what he thought about women he told me his last relationship was badand that love makes you vulnerable. And told me that he met many women who made promises but never fullfiled them.So he told me lets see what happens everything is in the hands of the heavens who could imagine us here today.he told me to keep in contact with him and send him e-mails.I sent him a email saying that i would love to get to know him better and that he can trust me but he did not answer .But he answered all the other casual e-mails.after 2 months i asked him if he was serious about us he told me that due to the distance which is 1 hour by plane cause we leave in two different cities we should just be friends . I was really hurt cause why didnt he tell me this when we met. He actually said that he was sorry for hurting me.I stopped contacting him and when i went to check the website he had closed his profile.So have i done the right thing to stop contact. And what is his problem Reply to this Question
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reader, Entirely Unique  +, writes (21 March 2010):
 I think while he was sat there with you he was saying all the right things and avoiding any kind of confrontation in the situation.
I do think you have done the right thing in stopping contact.
Don't let this one bloke put you off but be careful who you come to trust.
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