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writes:i have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 weeks now, he says he loves me but i want to know if he is telling me the truth or not. we hardly see eachother and when we do its when he wants to see me and we always end up having sex. i dont know if i should stay with him but i want to know if he really does love me first. thankyou for your help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): i would say that he is only using you, 6 weeks is like 3 days and you not even seeing each other a lot more obviously he doesnt really know you. i advice you let him go and be with someone who will take time to know you before he jumps into bed with you. the man is not worth the trouble
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): hi friend, see what i can tell u from my experience is, having sex is just the initial thing we couple used to have then, our love and care grows well iam telling u this coz iam also in relationship with a girl and its been 6 years now... and whenever we get a chance i never miss to have it .... well it depend on person to person also...but i can advice you that u just check ur lover once that does he really gives u attention more that his family ...if yes then its okey sweetheart..you both can have gr8 time & never forget to not give all you got ...let him beg for small small things ...and life is gr8
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): I've been in the same situation by choice. But when I was ready for a real man I left him and choose some one who wanted me for me. You have to be in control of yourself and your body no one should be able to have that power over you. Let hime go
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2007): U need to let him know that u are not his call girl. And he if just want a piece of meat, go to the meat store.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007): dude you've been together six weeks. break up with him. Start worrying about that kinda thing once you've been with someone for over six months, and their behavious changes from what you want to them only wanting to see you in bed. If he's like this at six weeks, there's little chance of him suddenly blossoming into a caring, loving boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): Boys this age only have sex on their mind.....he knows you would put out, you already are having sex and he has been dating you 6 short weeks. He rarerly sees you, unless he needs a sperm repository.
Guys show you how they feel and think about you by their behavior...my guess is he knew your reputation, and that is why he is your boyfriend. Sorry to be so harsh, but if you want to know if a guy really likes you, then he would just be happy to be in your company and do horizontal activities that you can both be proud to enjoy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): this guy may think that you having sex is "the way" to show your love for each other? just a suggestion, but you should talk about it if this is a possibility.
good luck x
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reader, BABY-FACE  +, writes (14 April 2007):
 wow...this is kinda obvious...to me it seems like he is using to have sex...you said it yourself..when you guys see each other..you end up having sex...now in days guys just want to be players.."gettin sum" dont let this boy take advantage of you...you deserve someone whos going to treat you right..and not want to be with you for sex.. good luck .. : )
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reader, FighterNoLover  +, writes (14 April 2007):
 shes right i mean everytime you guys get to see each other it shouldnt always be sex..and since its so soon maybe hes bluffing about really loving you. i mean think to yourself do you think he does?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): If you only see him when he wants to get together, and you always end up having sex, then don't you think the answer to your question of whether or not he really loves you is pretty obvious?
Six weeks is only a very short time, especially to be already having sex......think about cutting your losses with this boy......
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