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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, thank you in advance for any help, anyone can give. I really like this guy who I see through work about once a week, outside of that we phone each other and text all the time, I have told him how I feel about him and he says that he likes me too, but we have never been on a proper date. I have asked him to go out a couple of times but he has Said no, he has asked me out also but to be honest it feels ike he only asks when he knows I can't go. I have mentioned this to him, honestly feel like I'm pressurising him. Should I hang on and see if anything comes of this we have been texting and phoning for months, or should I try to move on and try to meet someone else who wants to spend time with me too.
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (20 March 2012):
OK, its really a matter of this:
You ask "Would you like to go to the movies Saturday?"
He responds: "No"
You ask "What night would be good for you?"
He says "Sunday".
There is your date.
Or he asks you "Want to go out Friday?"
And you respond "No, but Saturday will be fine."
Now if this does not work for the two of you then either you have impossibly conflicting schedules or he does not want to go out with you. But honestly, don't you think it should have happened by now?
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reader, Affectionless +, writes (18 March 2012):
What do you mean, 'he always asks when he knows you can't go?' If you really feel like you are in a slump or being messed around you should ask up straight or in a message if he really likes you and that it's okay if he doesn't, it's not nice feeling in limbo. He's probably waiting for you to make a move.
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