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writes:He tells me that he needs some space to try and clear his head, we have been together for 2years and 3months, he told me that he loves me and thinks the world of me, but then he goes and stays with his mate and his mates partner. He rings me every second day, I havn't seen him for a week. but then he came over and seen me last night, he greated me with a big hug and a kiss, and when it came time for him to leave he kissed me three times, will he come back to me? My feelings for him have only gotten stronger with him not being here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): If you really love someone let them fly free.If they come back to you you were meant to be.If they don't,they were never yours in the first place.
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 Ok, this is very difficult for you. Your boyfriend requested space so let him have it. You have behaved perfectly so keep doing this. Do not ring, or ask him to stay over or when am I going to see you again/ when will you be back questions, just leave him be. If you are friendly when he comes and calls but not clingy in any way then he will be back. The question you need to ask yourself is why did he want this space in the first place. If you know the answer then work on those points so you don't behave like that when he sees you/ comes back. If you don't really know just behave in a pleasant, supportive role when he calls and don't be needy. Wait for him to call you. He was obviously pleased to see you when he came round and you sound very mature and understanding in your post so just keep it this way. Many women make the mistake of bombarding the man with questions, wanting to talk etc etc and it makes them run a mile. Keep on as you are and he will be back.
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