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writes:should i give up? im going to try to make the story short i know i've asked this question in several ways but my situation changes from day to night. i have a mth old baby, my ex doesnt love me anymore he holds alot of resentment towards me bcuz he believes i didnt give him enough in our relationship. he tells me is too late for us to try and that hes moved on yet he got bck w me before our daughter was born and he acted as if he actually wanted to be with me until now that he tells me he only got back with me for the baby and that he was waiting for the baby to get older at least old enough for him to take care of her on his own and then leave me again. he tells hes scared of getting hurt by me again so he mistreats me to get back at me for hurting him in the past and that he cant forgive me for mistakes from the past. i feel i may still have a chance with him but hes scared so he wont give in; hes a capricorn as myself how can i get him to forgive me and not hold so much grudge towards me or should i jst let him go?? thanks for any advice
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (5 August 2010):
 If he's moved on then u need to as well. He's got issues with the past..And what happens in the past need to stay in the past. We live in the future, so move forward with yourself..if he still wants to see his daughter set up a schedule.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 August 2010):
If he won't forgive, you need to walk away from him. You can't live in a household with your child that has so much tension in it. He came back to you, and by coming back both of you needed to make an effort to pick the relationship up again. I think you have made an effort. But he isn't making an effort, and is using the past against you. That's not fair, and that's not the reason he should have come back. I think unless you and he get counselling together to fix this, you will have to walk away. You can't bring your child up in a house where this is no love and trust.
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