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writes:I'm feeling manipulated and would appreciate an outside perspective on thisSeeing this guy for over a year. We were for sure monogamous at one point (9 mos) but he would never fully commit to me as his girlfriend :(He went out of town for two weeks and I asked repeatedly if he was with a girl there he would either try to quiet me or tell me no... I believed him I find out this week that there was someone after all and I broke it off with him. But he says he isn't the bad guy that I'm being crazy!!I feel betrayed also bc we had unprotected sex based on the face that I thought he wasn't sleeping with anyone elseWho's the asshole here? I know I was stupid but he's a big jerk right??
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (27 June 2013):
 Three things... based on this segment of your submittal:
"Who's the asshole here? I know I was stupid but he's a big jerk right??"
1. Yes, you were stupid.
2. Yes, he's a big jerk.
3. It doesn't really matter who (or even IF one of you) is/was the asshole...
Good luck....
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (27 June 2013):
Well done you by breaking it off with your boyfriend.-you are totally in the right. He has betrayed you and you are not the crazy one .But sees things as they are Would you consider meeting a man that will love,respect and a man that you can Trust.Best Wishes Nora B.
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