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writes: I've been with my so called boyfriend for about three years It started out good but i took him to a family event and he acted stupid ,he had too much to drink i decided to leave him so we took a break for three weeks in those three weeks i started messing with a guy that i was talking to before i meet him we got back together me and my so called boyfriend he found out by reading my diary so we've had lots of problems he really loves me i dont love him and he knows it the relationship gets good at times and very sour to even physycal and verbal abuse and hes hurt me alot but hes good in bed and he financialy helps me out but i dont feel happy i feel empty i dont feel love in my life even though he loves me we have broken up many times but he's still around i feel like i'm wasting my time but in a way i dont want to hurt his feelings what should i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): from experience leave him if nessarry get a restraining order dont let him hurt you there is someone out there that will love you better and will never hurt you everything about him will make you smile dont wait till he starts hurting other people leave him
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2005): Im in a similar situation, and my fiance is so sentimental and Im almost afraid of how badly he will take it if we break up!!! Do I stay with someone because they love me sooo much and I dont want to hurt his feelings????
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): Where and who you spend your time with, is what you value. I think you are evaluating whether the life you have now with you bf, is meeting your needs and hopes for the future, and things are coming up short. It's time to break up, dear. Breaking up is difficult and people tend to avoid the difficult. But why are you putting energy into something that is over? What concerns me more is why are you flitting around here being wishy washy? In addition, it sounds like you have NO respect for your bf..relationships that have 'no respect' and pity as components usually don't work well. You live life once and if you aren't happy with your current bf-then the sooner you make the break, the better for both of you. Get out there and find your 'equal'. Some people have a hard time saying goodbye. You will hurt him, it can't be helped. But, you know in your heart-it's time to break the connection. And because you have broken up in the past and keeps in contact..it crucial if you break up this time...absolutely no contact! Contact is keeping him too 'connected to you'. It's not allowing you and him to move forward. Most of the time, former bf's don’t make good friends because they 'inadvertently' keep interfering with all one's life and subsequent relationships. Good luck in whatever you decide to do, dear.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (2 December 2005):
 You know what you should do, so why are you asking?! Dump him and get on with your life. Sheesh!
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