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writes: Why is it that when I get really intimate and close with my bf he goes all strange and starts contacting other girls? I'm sure that he loves me, he's told me so, but I know by the things that he does for me too it's obvious that he loves me. So why is it that when things are so special between us he sabotages it? I've tried talking to him about it but he just clams up. When we split briefly before, he met and was seeing someone else and admitted that he had sexual problems with her. Our sex life has always been wonderful. Firstly I thought he was faking his sexual problems with her and was saying this to make me feel better. However when we got back together I found he had sachets of kamagra (pineapple flavoured viagra jelly)in his overnight bag. I know that he has never had to take this with me and when I asked him about it he said he has used it with ex cos he had problems with her. So why when we have such a fantastic frienship/sexual relationship would he want to be looking for a relationship with a girl he can't even make love to naturally?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006): Have to say I agree with anon. You are believing what you want, as it's quite clear that he doesnt love you. If he did he would never risk sabotaging not only your relationship but your emotions. I think you need to stop blocking out the truth and end it before you get hurt even more. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006): Obviously he's not in love with you. Guys will say anything to get some. You need to find someone else, someone who will really give you the time of day. You need to leave him and if he comes back and begs for you then he deserves you, if not you are better off without him. If the time isn't right then MOVE ON
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