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*ayfinnigan
writes:hiya, i was wondering if anyone could help me with some advice. please when you give me advice not to be unhurtful or unhelpful?ok........(im 14 btw i just lie about my age on my profie)welll i went out with my boyfriend then he dumped me he says he doesnt like me that way anymore, and he says i tell everyone our conversation and sometimes i do but i dont mean it? he says he finds me nice looking etc, but i dont know what to do? i have never liked anyone THIS much before, i think i love him i know its a strong word but i think i do. he spoke to me today for the first time since he dumped me which was 3/4 days ago? i miss him so much, but we cant even look at each other anymore?everyone says he still likes me but i dont know? how can i gain his trust again? i really need him back, pleaseeeeeeeeee helppppppp meeeeeeeeeeeeee:(?thanks, id appeaciate verrrrrryyyyyy much if you do:D Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): I was in the same situation at ur age & am sorry to say it sounds like this guy is just playing games with you.
Just get well away from him...it mite seam inpossable just now but you will get over him.
Just dont let him play you coz then he'll do it again & again.
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reader, puzzledpixie +, writes (24 April 2009):
You should show him the qualities that made him like you the first time, smile at him when he looks at you- small things like that help alot aswell. Make sure to not tell anyone your conversations as he trusted you with them, them being private for your ears only. You can tell your friends how sweet he is and jokes and stuff but no full conversations that was meant for you only, your friends might get pretty sick of it if you do anyway.
Good luck.
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