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*eckySmith101
writes:Hey. well, this is confusing so just bear with me :)I met a guy in year 7 and he was in year 9. We were great mates and teased each other and so on and I only thought of us as mates. Wasn't sure about him though.Then in year 8 we started meeting up. I didn't call it "datng" or going out so neither did he but i suspected something and I fancied a little.Then in year 9, i lost all my feelings for him and started going out with my current boyfriend. I never told him that I had a bf.When he found out I wasn't single, he then asked to speak to me where he told me that he loved me since we first met. I told him i lost those feelings and he told me that maybe i could try again later.Nowadays, he keeps on hugging me, complimenting me and acting like my bf, when we both know he's not.So basically, how can I tell him to go away without breaking our friendship?Thanks!xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2012): I don't think there is a nice way of doing it. You just have to tell him,be firm its not appropriate to behave as he is when you have a boyfriend.You have to mean it though,be firm.
If that fails,ask your boyfriend to have a word with him,am surprised he hasn't already to be honest
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