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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I went out with a guy once over a year ago, due to school, working and family etc, it didn't work out because we could never see each other. A year on we are still talking and say how much we like each other all the time, we've arranged to meet a few times but have had to cancel.Anyway he keeps blowing hot and cold... one day he'll text me all the time and ring me and then a couple of days later he won't at all and won't reply leaving me in doubt.I'm not sure what to think about this... any ideas?? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): I think I know the answer to this but just need clarification maybe. I was involved with a guy for awhile but not anymore. I am working on a campaign with him now and assumed we would be friendly but no more. He has been flirting a lot with me, making eye contact and winking. I saw him yesterday and he seemed not too happy to see me. I think he is arrogant, assumes I still like him and thinks he can play me like a fiddle. Am I being cynical or just realistic?
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reader, Charlie84  +, writes (20 August 2007):
Move on. If he was serious he would make time for you and wouldn't just give up so easily all the time in talking with you. You're the space filler in his dating life and having you say you like him and show interest is just a self esteem booster.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (20 August 2007):
He's a flake, look elsewhere. You cannot wait forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2007): girl i think that he's just not that into you if i were you i would find someone else and stop wasting time on him because he's obviously not into you as much as you are into him.............sorry
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