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writes: I am feeling very blue today. I am still in love with my ex who after giving me mixed signals for months of us dating again, i think has now decided he doesnt want me as hes not contacted me for 2 weeks. I love him so much. I want him to be happy, so i am willing to let him go. I wrote him a letter 4 weeks ago, putting my cards on the table, saying if he wanted me he had to be consistent with me and not give me these mixed messages. He took me out the night i got back from my holiday after he got the letter, and was kind and trying really hard. Then invited me out again the next week, but when it came to it he was cold with me to begin with. I dont understand why he is like this all the time. I invited him out to dinner the next night which he said he couldnt do, then i have heard nothing for 2 weeks - i have not contacted him either. I so desperately wish he would have the balls to talk to me honestly and tell me it is over rather than just ignoring me. I never knew love could hurt this much until this year.
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reader, Bristol5711 +, writes (18 November 2006):
 Get a paper and pen. Write down his adress, email and all phone numbers. Get your mobile, computer and all and delete his contact details from your harddrive. Also, save the files and photos on a CD or print them, but delete them from your hard drive. That way you won't think about him that often PLUS you won't call him 'by accident' PLUS you will get the chance to think of something else.. You should try it -- worked for me :-)
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