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writes: We have a strong emotional connection and both clearly like each other, but he has such a bitter hatred for his ex that he cant get over. They were together for three years and she cheated on him so they broke up this summer. Since then, we have hooked up but thats back when things were just fun and games. Now i have strong feelings for him and he always tells me what an amazing girl in his life i am, but he doesnt want to ruin the friendship because at this point in his life he hates girls. This whole "being friends" things that he wants confuses me because he constantly calls me to hang out and just be together, but it kills me when he comes to me for advice. What am i to think and what to i do because it hurts so much to be so confused.
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reader, shania  +, writes (23 November 2005):
 Right lets get one thing straight,you are not his psychiatrist your his girlfriend,or you WERE.This fella is still holding a torch for his ex and he was on the rebound when he met you.He just wants to be friends,i know you like him alot but theres no point in waiting around on the off chance he is going to run in to your arms.Give it time,he might just need space to get over his ex.In the meantime,dont wait for him to call you,go out and have some fun.When he does call you,dont go running to him,say your busy and you will catch him up later.Dont be available,otherwise you are giving him a ego boost.He is too hung up on his ex to have a relationship with anyone else.Look elsewhere.
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