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He has a dodgy past -- can he really change?

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Question - (5 June 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 June 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hello,

Iam 33 recently met a man 34years old who was very interested in me

he told me interesting things about his past about his thug life and that he has slept with many women

even there was a time he had 6 girlfriends all to be used for sex. Even at one time he made a woman caring his child have an abortion because did not want to be with her. He said his past life was about sex just dating women for sex. But he is ready to change if he finds the right woman to marry.

Listening to all this i was really disgusted about how a man would use women like tissues but i was thinking he might change

But recently while we were chatting on skype he put a picture of him and his ex, I asked why do you put this picture he said because he likes that picture

i really dont understand we have been together for 1 year and he behaves like this, i dont know what to do

I have not let him touch me because iam waiting for marriage

But iam not sure this man can change any advise people

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2012):

Run run, this guy will never change. Don't marry him because you will soon become a baby mama and undoubtedly be left. He is bad news and probably will end up in more trouble and then be in prison. Why would you want to be asssociated with that however much fun he might me. I personally love a bad boy but this is a bad boy who isn't even treating you properly.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2012):

run!!! every man i've dated who claims to have changed, didnt! im 42, been around the block several times. i could be wrong but my experience says he hasnt changed!

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