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writes:What does it mean when your boyfriend is erect up till the point you go to have sex. Like he goes soft when are are about to have sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): Hiya. It happens to a lot of men especially when they are shy. He may make out that he's not shy but deep down he is. Questions keep going round in his head, 'Will she laugh at it?' 'What if i can't get it up?' 'What if she picks a position i can't do or ever tried?'
Its nothing to worry about. Find out what really turns him on, set the mood, get in the mood, talk dirty to him to get him more excited. Dress up, do it in every room of the house, explore the outdoors. Theres lots of things i could suggest but you know him best.
If it keeps on like it, talk to your GP. Hope it helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): Don't think that he is unattracted to you as thats far from the reason. Perhaps he has convinced himself he is not up to the task and physically cant please you.
Or could it be that he doesnt like penetrative sex? Some people don't. Have you talked over your concerns and the way it makes you feel. Imagine how it makes him feel too. If it a real concern, you must ask him if he will go and see a doctor, im sure they can help.
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