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writes:hey everyone!!i am studying in college..and i have a guy friend who i am not that close to but yeah we just say hi or maybe sometimes speak..but i dont like the way he behaves..as in whenever he sees me he would touch my stomach,many a times he gets too touchy and i don't like it..i don't know if he is doing it a friendly or flirty way!!
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reader, jackpot  +, writes (29 March 2008):
ughh i'm in the same situation as you! my guy friend was doing it today in fact!
a solution i've found is to just not react to it at all, today my friend kept linking arms with me and touching my shoulders and waist (and even giving me some sort of shoulder massage - eeeep!)
i'll be interested in the answers to this question too. it's unpleasant isn't it!
take care x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): OMG i hate that!! I had a BF in 7th grade ( im in 9th grade . He used to touch my stomach and butt and breasts all the time !! I hated it then one day I was trying to tell him how I felt and I kinda yelled at him( whatever you don't do that .... lets just say it ended badly...) and I ended up having to end it. If I could go back and do it diffrently I would .... but I can't so my adivce is to CALMY explain to him that you don't like it and to please not do it anymore ......he's probably just trying to be flirty and it's not working ..... so let him know in the nicest way possible .:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): It is easy.....tell him that you ae not a touchy feely person and that you appreciate it if he would not touch you as he often does. tell him with a smile. If he persistes...then tell him in a more aggressive manner.
Good luck to you
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