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writes:A couple of weeks ago I met a really nice guy on a night out. We got on really well, and Ive seen him quite a few times since. Trouble is, I dont actually know if he even likes me! I talk to him a few times a week online, and we've spent time together, just as the 2 of us and also with friends. But I honestly cant work out if hes interested or just thinking Im some girl who he met on a night out and now wont leave him alone! lol.Last week we arranged to go out one night, he forgot about it so I had to remind him, then on the day we were due to go out he didnt even bother to get in contact. I really like him a lot, but Im starting to feel like he just doesnt like me enough to bother. Its been getting me really down because I feel like Ive done something wrong. I havent been clingy or needy in anyway, because Im not that kinda person.Im 21 years old, hes a couple of years older and I feel like at this age that people should just be honnest, instead of playing games and chasing after each other.He's gone away for a week, so Im going to have this time when I cant speak to him. Ive been thinking of just deleting his number/email, cutting my losses before I feel worse. I really dont wanna be messed about. What should I do? My best mate thinks he does genuinely like me but doesnt wanna get hurt so hes keeping his distance. Im really struggling as to what I should do, and Im angry at myself for getting so bothered about this! Any suggestions are greatly appreciated, Thanks :) Reply to this Question
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reader, cd206 +, writes (24 March 2007):
 I reckon you should be straight with him. Tell him you're sick of his lack of interest and that if what he wants is to be left alone you're happy to oblige. It'll at least force him tp be honest about how he really feels about you. It might seem harsh but the truth is that you sound like someone who needs to be in a relationship where you're both open about the way you feel etc and it doesn't sound like he'll do that.
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reader, livi +, writes (24 March 2007):
 Hey there,
I think he does like you, but he couldnt make it that time becoz he genuely did have a reason.
Tell him what you feel though, that you dont wanna be messed about but you think this could lead to something.
DONT DELETE HIM OUT OF YOUR LIFE!!
lol, people make mistakes and he is only human, he sounds like he does like you and if you like him then deleting him out of your life would only decrease the chances of something ever happening.
Good luk with it all : D
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