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writes: my friend and her boyfriend broke up. she still loves him. she called him and when he said he was over her he didnt sound convincing. i know he loved her by the way he talked about her when they went out. he said they were just going too fast so he ended it. is he just running scared or is he really over her?
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reader, K Jo V +, writes (31 December 2006):
K Jo V is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim trying to get advice for my friend. because shes been wondering too and i told her id see if i cood get some other points of view.
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reader, Sexybum  +, writes (30 December 2006):
 When you come out of a relationship you don't 'get over' it straight away. There is always a period where you sit and think about your ex... or wonder if you have made the right decision or not.
There comes a point when you stop being angry and start remembering all the good times... for most people this is the point where they go back to their partner and make another go of it... but for some they can have these feelings, but still remember the reason why they split in the first place and if they really don't want to be with that person anymore then they will ignore all of their fond feelings and try and shuffle through until they feel ok again.... That's why they might sound uncertain when they get asked is it really over... because they are still trying to comprehend it themselves and take it in themselves.... They could also still be trying to decide if they really do want it to be over or not..
You see when they are around that person they might well think... I want to finish this I've had enough... But when they've spent some time by themselves and had some time to miss them and think about it they might change their mind and realize that they actually do want to make it work.
Why do you ask this question anyway? If you don't mind me saying... It's a bit odd... I'm doing some digging here and I may be wrong... but are you interested in him and want to know if it's ok to make a move or not? Or are you trying to gather advice for your friend? I hope you don't mind me asking... but if it's the first option then people might be able to give you more advice?
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