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writes: We were friends. We started dating. Things were great.Then he broke it off for no reason I can see... he doesnt want a relationship right now he says.And now, weeks later, I'm still upset over it.I'm not crying like the first couple days... but every time my thoughts wander, they wander towards him and how much i want him back. I miss him badly.The thing is... it's not that he hates me... because he's still friendly and talks to me. (this might be making it harder for me to move on but i don't want to lose him as a friend too!) He's even going the extra mile, offering to help me move some stuff from storage.So, I have three questions:One: is there any hope of getting him back?Two: HOW!?Three: is he being nice out of guilt... or does he really still like me as a friend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2006): there's really no way of knowing if you can get him back. god only knows the answer to that question. well...that and him. as for is he just being nice out of guilt or does he still like you as a friend; that one's tough to say. i think it really just depends on the type of friendship you guys had before you began dating, and for how long you guys were friends. if you'd been friends for a while, and were truly close, then i'd say that he still is interested in your friendship. but if you guys really didn't have much of a friendship before this, i'd say he probably isn't all that interested. but it's hard to say either way. because then again, it's hard to imagine him wanting to help you simply out of guilt. i know i wouldn't do that just because i felt guilty!!
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