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writes: I think he still likes his ex. It's been 3 months sincve they broke up and he still thinks he;s not ready for another relationship soon. When I asked him if he misses her he said yeah, sometimes. He said he's not ready for a relationship cuz he just got out of one. Well it sounds to me that he's just making an excuse because I thikk 3 months is a long time. What do you guys think he's thinking??? Do you think he still likes her and that's why he doesn't wanna be my boyfriend yet???
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (31 October 2006):
Ivanna22 is verified as being by the original poster of the question then should I stop hooking up with him???
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (30 October 2006):
 3 months is nothing. To some 6 months is nothing. A person heals in their own time. You just have to be patient and give him time. He will get over it eventually and then you all can go from there but don't pressure it and don't get frustrated. Put yourself in his shoes and think of how you would react to such a situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2006): Hi there, im going through the same situation as you hun, I have fallen in love with my best male friend and he came out of a relationship about 12 months ago an this was a 6 year serious relationship. He has told me he isnt ready for another relationship at the moment. All I can say is if you really like this guy and would really like to be in a relationship with him eventually dont force the situation. I tried that and it nearly blew up in my face, I have found the best thing to do is be there for them, be there friend, and see if it progresses naturally in time. If they like you alot you will be able to tell and it will give you enough hope to hang in in there a little longer. I have found if you step back a little the more they start to come forward. Hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2006): 3 months isn't a long time at all, it normally takes at least 6 months to get over someone who you loved. to make the process easier for him, just be there for him as a friend and support him when needed. also if he avoids seeing his ex and has absolute no contact with her then it makes the getting over process quicker. once he is ready to move on you'll know it and then you can go more than friendship with him for there on in
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