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writes:I am 14 and in the begining of this school year I had a serious crush on a guy, i saw him on the Grade 9 orientation day, he looked really cute, I liked him immediatly after I saw him. He looks like he is in his early teens, no more than 15 or 16 years old, but later on in this year i found out that he is a 12th grader and he is 3 years older than me. But i still liked him very much. My eyes searches for his face everywhere i go and i never went on a day without thinking about him, But everyone told me that its impossible for me and him to even become friends, not to mention that its allegal to date some one who is an adult. This pains me very much and he doesn't even know that i exist. I dont know what to do! Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): you have to start from some were even if its only a small conversation.so talk to some of his mates and find out what he likes but do it in a casual way so they dont think your a stalker!!then casually start to combine things you like with things he likes and then you will eventually build a friendship and then you can take it from there but if it takes some time don't worry it will eventually blossom so dont worry and remember boy have small brains so it will take a while!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): hi! there is nothing you can do about the age gap it is what it is.But there is no reason why you cant be friends with him.i had the same problem and now we are grate mates.the only thing getting in the way here is you your afraid to talk to him incase others think its not cool.Well to be honest as long as he likes you as a friend it doesnt matter what they think.And who nos some day it could blossom into something bigger.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): I am 14 and there is this boy i really like and it isnt just a crush.The boy is 15.Every time i see him i skip a heart beat.but he doesnt no i exist i talk to him on msn but its just a hi howa u conversation and in school im to scared to talk to him incase i embarras myself i dont no what to do its not just a crush n i cant let it go i have tryed what should i do how do i get to no him better HELP!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): me to mines a junior. he who shall remain namless does actually kno i exist because of some pretty crazy shit i pulled but it turns out hes is not that great either i found out he shaves his legs and doesnt even have a car. But about you try to find out stuff about him before you approach him because he maybe utterly revolting in ways you are naive about. the attraction will always be thier though untill he leaves and goes off to college but unless you are like a mega hot piece of freshmeat i would admire him from afar. i used to do what u do and look for him but lately i havent really looked and its not ok looking for someone whos not looking for u. so deal or get really hot.- i am so over he who shall remain nameless
p.s. it helps to have random hookup with hot guys:P
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): hey i have the exact same problem except i sent him a really weird message now he thinks i'm a freak its so annoying and upsetting how did you sort your problem?
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reader, Shirley_xia +, writes (25 October 2007):
Shirley_xia is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx for ur reply
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reader, Shirley_xia +, writes (25 October 2007):
Shirley_xia is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx for ur reply
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reader, xLamentedxAmourx  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 You are going to have to let him go. If he is in the twelfth grade and does not even know you, there is little you can do. Crushes come and go, and if you let him go, you can develop another crush, maybe one you could pursue. Either that, or try talking to him. It is not illegal to date him, just have sex with him. He could go to jail. So you need to build up enough courage to talk with him, or let him go. Try to find another cute boy, it will happen.
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