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writes:I meet this guy at my job. And the moment we saw each.other I knew I had to have him.. He.gave me his number I called the same night. We decided to hang at my house because it was my birthday weekend. He came to my house drunk. And smoking I was sort of pissed. But I realized thats who he is. He started kissing me all night then he wanted to have sex. I had sex with him. Three times we had sex I stopped giving him attention because.he didnt want a relationship. I refused him for three weeks. He kept callin I ignored him. I didnt want to fall for him.even.more. he called me in his drunk stage saying I dont want you talkin to other guys and he feels im negleting him. Ill ask him about the things he say when.he is sober and he says he does remember that. And he doesnt care if I speak other fuys now im confused what should I do
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): Good for you OP. You'll meet a nice, decent guy soon enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks I was thinking the samething I wont answer his calls Ill just say hi and bye at work...nothing more
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): It sounds like he just wants you around for sex when it's convenient for him. Him calling you drunk and tellling you he doesn't want you to see other guys doesn't mean he likes you he's just worried in case he has any competition.
He's playing games to get what he wants. I've known a guy who acted practically the same way, and he had a girlfriend to make it worse. Guys like him just want you when they feel like having sex then throw you away until the next time.
The guy i'm talking about did the same thing "i miss you" "why don't you come and see me?" it's all BS designed to make you feel guilty. Drop him before you get hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): To be honest. Please, just reading your letter makes me feel really bad to you. I understand you like him. I understand that. But if you think about it. Later on in life what if you dated him. You thought he was the perfect person. He starts to control you. He starts to hit you. Just reading your question makes me have that feeling. I understand you really really like him, but you gotta think about the bad side if you can really endure it. You date him you want to break up with him. He dosen't let you. I'm sorry If im saying things wrong but, what I'm saying might be true. For me. My choice about him is that he seems to just want to use you for sex and later throw you away like trash. I'm not saying all boys are like that. Maybe he's different. My choice is don't do anything with him anymore. I rather find a guy better than him honey.
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