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writes: I currently live with an old mate, and his girlfriend. I have known my mate for 5 years, and we've always got on fine and had no arguments or issues to speak of. Recently, he admitted to me he has cheated on his girlfriend. I am disappointed in the guy for being so weak, as he had talked about leaving her beforehand, but is too gutless to tell her how he feels and leave her. I feel very sorry for the girl, as she is a nice lass, and blissfully unaware anything is wrong. I currently feel very uncomfortable - I am a very moral guy, and I hate lies and deceit. What should I do? I like the house, and (up until this) I've lived happily here for nearly a year. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2005): You may want to talk to your friend and find out if he's even planning on leaving her or telling her the truth sometime soon. Before you make the jump and say anything remember you could stand to loose your friendship with him and her, because people always shoot the messenger. It would be better to convince him to spill the beans.
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reader, KatieE +, writes (28 November 2005):
I would talk to your mate about this, maybe convence him to the right thing. You should tell him that the girl deserves to know the truth and he doesn't need to keep leading her on. He needs to figure out his own problems before he can have a serious girlfriend.
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