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writes: my boyfreind got sick the other day when i was with him and went to the hospital. he just told me he was having withdrawls from a cocaine addiction he had....he didnt tell me sooner because when we first went out i said i wouldnt date anyone who was doing drugs so he decided not to tell me. im just really confused right now... he says hes been free for a month and i want to believe him..i love him but if he lied about not doing drugs im finding it hard to believe that hes quit... and i pray to god that he wont go back. i know this isnt really a question but i was hoping you all could give me some advice on how to cope with this..... please i dont know what to think.
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reader, whisper01 +, writes (23 December 2006):
 you need to get through this together .
he didnt tell u because he loves u and u havent left him as soon as you found out he was on drugs because u love him. There is a lot of love there and u can turn to each other for help. Thats how you cope.
why do u find it so hard to believe that he has quit? If he is having withdrawal symptoms he cant still be taking it can he?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006): I am a recovering addict myself. All you can do right now, is be there for him. It will take a while for him to build back your trust in him. But, take it from me, people can get better. I have been clean almost 2 years now, and no one ever thought that I could do it. Good luck. If he does relapse, just don't blame yourself. Addiction is very hard to get over. My wishes....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006): im sorry to say this but you may need someone to check on him. cocaine is addictive so there is a chance he may be lying. why not sit down and talk to him and maybe you could work something out. remember if he is lying it may probably be because he loves you and does not want you to leave him
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