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He can't bring himself to BE himself when I'm around. So I'm not sure if he likes me or if this is his personal way of shunning my existence.

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Question - (6 September 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok so I think I'm a little confused here. Now normally I can read into it if a guy likes me or not, but in this case I need some advice/opinions to help me out. I'll get everybody up to date on the current situation: I've known this guy for quite some time, we see each other more often then not. We work for the same company but in different departments, but it's a small company therefore we share the same group of friends at work.

This guy is typically really out going and somewhat of a joke-ster. This is where my confusion kicks in, whenever I come around he gets quiet and some what shy. Even when Im speaking directly to him, he wont look me in the eye. I catch him looking at me constantly even when he thinks Im not paying attention (I cant tell what kind of look he's giving off though). I know what your thinking, its obvious that he likes me. But Im not all that sure he does.

We've carried on the above routine for nearly three months, I love his true personality and would even consider a realtionship with this guy but it's like he can't bring himself to BE himself when I'm around. So I'm not sure if he likes me or if this is his personal way of shunning my existence.

I dont know, guys I've dated in the past have been really up front about liking me. For instance, they would always talk to me, spend mass amounts of time with me, make an effort to say goodmorning/goodbye and It would go from there. I really need some input on this one, what do you think? Is it possible that he likes me? Are his signs that I've described normal for some guys? Any help would be great, thanks. (Sorry for the length of this!)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007):

hello...the only way to find out if he likes you is to be your self....if he likes you then it will happen and if he doesnt just forget it

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