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writes: Hello, well ive been going through issues with my ex boyfriend. I love him very much and ive never felt this way for anyone my whole life. We fought alot during our relationship and we would always break up and one day he called me and he told me he wanted to end it because of that reason.After that it was over. People would try to talk to him so that way he would come back but he wouldnt. Even his own father tried talking to him but he still would say no i cant be with her. Just yesterday he got back with me..i was so happy i told everyone. He instant messaged me that same night and told me to please not be mad at him for he was about to end it again he was saying he jumped back into it too quickly and that he doesnt want to be with me and that hes very stupid and needs time to think. He told me he got back with me because he didnt want anyone else to take me away. I told him they wouldnt he felt selfish. So he ended it and the next morning i called him telling him i was thinking of moving back to my brothers in orlando. He told me it may be the best thing for me but then i told him I'm going to be here waiting for you and I'm not going to stop my life but i will wait because i love you very much...and that was all..what do you think is the best advice for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): Not knowing your ages or anything about you both it is hard to judge what is the absolute best thing for you to do.
But I can tell you this, letting him walk out on you repeatedly and taking him back and even going as far as saying that you will wait on him is not working for you, it is not making your boyfriend want to be with you...
Frankly he needs to poop or get off the pot, ever heard of that one?
Show some strength and tell him you want to break up with him, give it a time limit of several months, and then do it, go out, get your hair done, get a make over, buy a new dress and date some new men....don't sleep around, just date and have some fun, you are only young once.
Your boyfriend if he loves you will come crawling back with his tail between his legs, and when he does you can then tell him either don't let the door hit you in the behind (how many times has he done this to you?) or set the new ground rules for coming back...like a marriage proposal if that is what you are ready for....tell him you understand if he can't give it to you, but you deserve it and you will not be coming back until he is ready to make a committment to you.
Moving will not solve your problems, but if you think it would help you get over him and give you a new lease on life, then go for it...but find a good job first.
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reader, babyzgotback +, writes (9 November 2006):
i think that if you guys broke up it was for a reason not trying to say that it was ur fault but sweety this same thing happened to me 3 times and i accepted him and everything kept going on and off so its just not worth it if u guyz broke up its for a reason move on and yeah he may be like u kno what i want you back but let him be jealous or let him be mad because he is the one that lost the chance with an amazing person he just doesnt kno it yet so let him have time to think and move on it happened to me and i dont want it to happen to u just ignore it and u guyz can still be friends cause right now he doesnt kno what he wants get with someone who does...who knos he is prob talkin to another girl u dont kno about and thats y he is so shaky so my advice is just let him go..ohk its prob the best thing but its ur choice
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