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writes:I have been dating a guy for the last 5 months who I thought was the "nice guy" I was looking for. We actually met through my ex and were REALLY just friends until after a couple of months after my ex and I split. We have so much fun together and we have told each other we love each other for the last 2 months. He has "taken off" a few times and not answered my calls. He makes excuses about his phone and all sorts of things, but has always agreed he should call me to let me know he is going out with the guys. Everyone knows us in town and he has never been seen with anyone else. Over the last couple of weeks I feel like he has been pulling away. I am the one that is always calling and he is not. I asked him if he needed space and he initially said no. Then he blew me off a couple of days later and I got mad, so then he said he did need space. Then he called me and said he would stop by and never did nor did he call. He hasn't called me all week and I have not called him. His kids say he has been very grumpy and different. He has made mention that he is afraid of getting hurt, but he has agreed that he doesn't think I would hurt him. I am SO CONFUSED. Should I wait or will that drive him further away?Needing help.
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reader, ArmyBf`s Gurl +, writes (18 May 2007):
If you feel like hes pullin away then tell him and tell him how it makes you feel. My bf used to do that to me and then he would break up with me. I told him I was done and that if he didn't want to be with me then to just tell me and then I finally broke it off with him. I really love him but i thought he didn't love me so I dated another guy. Then he relized that actually lost me. he then came back to me after a while and now we are getting engaged. So be smart and if he doesn't relize that your confused and its hurting you then call the quits, if he really cares for you then he'll straighten up and start being a man. If he doesn't come back to you then it wasn't meant to be and i know that may seem harsh but you don't want to be with someone who might not care about you.
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