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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been with this same guy for a year now.And we've been through alot of arguments and brok up here and there. Now, it's like hebarely has time for me. And he always wantsto go out with his friends. We live so farapart, like about an hour or so. But the onlytime i get to see him is if i go to his house.He never ever wants to come to mine just becausehe says he dosent like in my area. so what?! i dontlike it in his. What should I do?! Reply to this Question
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female
reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 You can try to change yourself to accept those living conditions as you cannot change him.
Or you can tell him your needs and if he cannot meet them, then you need to rethink about this relationship where it is only a one way street.
Maybe , a break from him may bring him to his senses or cut him lose forever .
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): Move on! You are clearly not happy and he doesnt seem to be with you either mentally or physically 100% then end it now. You say that you have argued in the past and yet stuck together, why? What is it about him that is so good? Does he make you feel good, no, so why stay with it? End it now and meet someone who you so rightly deserve, dont put up with crap, cos life is too short.
take care
xx
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