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He asked me to move in and I thought things were serious...

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Question - (7 November 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2005)
A female , *uttless writes:

I have been dating a guy for 4 months. It seemed very serious, he asked me to move in. He says he loves me then the very next day he says he doesn't want a serious relationship, etc...but wants to see me in a couple of weeks as friends, no sex. What should I do? What does he want? How can you go from one day saying you're in love to you want to break up? What does this mean?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (8 November 2005):

eyeswideopen agony auntI guess he changed his mind or got cold feet. Nevertheless I suggest you move on. After all 4 months isn't a HUGE investment.

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A female reader, beenthere +, writes (8 November 2005):

ask him why he has done this. it may be that he asked you to move in then realised he wasn't ready for that kind of commitment. meet him on your terms. no sex. he may just feel he wants to know what else there is to your relationship, especially if it has been very physical

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