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writes:Hello everybody i would like to ask what to do about a girl I know Tami, a friend of mine who is just back from NY, I introduced her to my friends sometime ago so she got in our gang, she brought another girl Chris sometime and she was a attracted to one of the boys but the thing did not work and she stop comin', now my friends pretends me to date her any weekend the other girl is not here and she even says is to me openly she cannot go out with me or my friends cos of the other girl, she is so special in a bad way always talking about herself all time and it tires me up a lot though I try to be polite to her,however we had arranged to meet together with a friend of us who couldn't come and I appointed to meet another girl and some of her frirnds who I know too, but the girl back from NY said she hada dated her fried so she woulnt come and just was quite cold to me I did as I did not care but I'm getting upset about the selfish she is she even tried to chat up my ex who had come to try to come too meet me when with some friends, he wanted to be back with me, I didn't care she did this as they ended up having an argument as they both demand so much atention from me, and though I like him and he paid moer attention to me I know he's a a cheater and a lier and that he still sees his gilfriend he lived with but Tami's behaviour is making me feel very uncomfotable i told her t was ok if chris came along with us or thet they went out on their own if they wanted to talk about private things and then she seemed dissapointed as I told her to call me anytime if she wanted and tell jer goodbye as she likes talikng for about 45 min-monologue- and I ended up the conversation fast last time she phonedany advice? I do not have one million friends and I musn't be picky but she's gettin a bit on my nervesthanks a lot
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 dear astrid
have you tried talking to your friend? If you haven’t I think its time for the talk. You cant keep allowing your friend to do as she likes while you know deep down you are hurting. U don’t have to put up with a friend who has no respect for you just because you don’t want to appear very picky. Pretending to like her when you don’t will hurt even more because she doesn’t know how you feel and she will keep coming along. It is your decision to make and hope you will make the best one
jovial
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