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writes:Hi,I am in love with a guy since 3.5 years and he loves me a lot , we had our part of fights as all relations do , the most important thing is our way of thinking is too different am a modern gal and he is narrow minded over possessive man I used to complain he used to realize and things used to get sorted (for meanwhile) or I used to adjust with it as love was all that mattered for us at the end But life took a turn for me I met a guy in my office we started taking , he had a girlfriend he broke up we are in love , I love both the guys but my compatibility with the second one is better as we think almost alike I felt I am cheating my boyfriend so I stopped talking to the later one, but I still think of him and I just wonder If I have taken a right decision? I dont know how long I'll think of the second guy though its just a week we have stopped talking. Have I taken the right decision to stay with my boyfriend instead of choosing the guy with whom I share a better compatibility? One thing to I enjoy my life and we share our happiness incase of my first boyfriend but I share all my sorrows and look for a solution from the second one
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 What stopped you from breaking up with your boyfriend and seeing the new guy? Was it love or loyalty?
If you really feel like you would be happier with the new guy then you owe it to yourself to try. How can you be happy forever with a man you already know you're not compatible with on so many basic levels? Or do you just hate to "throw away" the last 3.5 years? Trust me it is better to end it now than 5 years and 2 kids from now...
You can only bend over backwords trying to please somebody else for so long before you break. (Or wither)
So ask yourself this; Which one makes you feel free to just be yourself? That is the one you should be with.
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